3 Tips On How to Ask For A LinkedIn Recommendation

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My recent post on MyBizCard.co illustrated the wrong way to ask someone to rate your work on LinkedIn. What are some of the right ways?

Here are three suggestions:

1. Pay it forward before you even ask. One of the best ways to generate good will is to return the favor ahead of time. Rate or recommend the person you’re asking, then send your own request. This should be a sincerely thought-out recommendation, since you value the person enough to ask them in the first place, right?

2. Send the request to one person at a time. Clumping together people by alphabet in a mass email sends the nonverbal message that you favor quantity over quality. Look at it this way: You’re asking someone to take the time to rate your work, which ultimately reflects on you personally. Take the time in turn to give each person the courtesy of a personal message.

3. Feel free to get specific. LinkedIn provides a template for your request. Don’t use it. You don’t have to write a book, just craft a few lines about what and why you’re asking. You can mention a project you both worked on, or how great it is that you got to know the person since you met, and so on. And yes, you can say that you’re job-hunting and would love a recommendation of your work. We’ve all been there and most folks should have no problem with that.

Note: I should add, though I wish I didn’t have to, that you still should have worked with the person in some capacity before you ask to be recommended, or make sure it’s clearly noted that this is a personal character reference (if that’s even suitable for LinkedIn, which is debatable).

What tips do you have for asking for a recommendation?

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LinkedIn Tip: How Not to Use MyBizCard

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If I haven’t worked with you professionally, don’t ask me to rate you professionally.

Simple, right?

MyBizCard.co, a self-described “world’s first online business card with ratings & reviews from your peers that shows how awesome you are,” may make this rating system a little too simple. You use LinkedIn to send a message like this to your connections: “I’d like to request 10 seconds of your time to leave me a quick rating here: <MyBizCard link>.”

The click-through contains this:

“Thank you for responding to my rating request.
Please rate my professional skills below. Your rating will be shown on my virtual business card.”

All fairly innocuous. The trouble was, of course, that I had never worked with the sender professionally.

Now, MyBizCard may not give the sender a choice as to who to send this message; I received it as one of a small group of other names that start with the letter “B.” Unfortunately, that alone made me think this request was more generic than having any real value.

The fall-out to this type of blind request is it makes me think that I don’t want to work with this person. If the sender overlooks a detail like this, what else will he or she overlook?

At the very least, I don’t see the value in remaining connected with someone who doesn’t know or care about this kind of thing.

I’m all for using LinkedIn to expand your network with people you don’t know in person nor worked with professionally. Just take a moment to look at the messages you’re sending. They may be saying more than you realize.

Click here for tips on how to ask for a recommendation.

What’s been your experience with MyBizCard or other “rate my work!” requests?

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